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Tuning In June 2022

6/1/2022

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Each month I post an update called Tuning In on what I'm up to and various content I would like to share with you. Most of the links on this post are informational only, but a few are affiliate links that help me keep up my website.

Events:
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Speaking: 
  • Understanding & Untangling ADHD
          and Trauma - June 30th, 2022
​          9am-10am PST

Facilitating: 
  • Center for Chronic Illness - Web-Based Rare Chronic Illness Support Group Tuesday June 7th, 2022 at 4pm PST
  • Center for Chronic Illness - Living with Thyroid Eye Disease Support Group Tuesday June 7th, 2022 at 6pm PST
  • Center for Chronic Illness - Living with Cystinosis Web-Based Support Group, Tuesday June 21st, 2022 at 4pm PST
  • Center for Chronic Illness - Supporting Loved Ones with Cystinosis. Tuesday June 21st, 2022 at 6pm PST

Publications:  
  • 2 of my senryu were published in failed haiku: A Journal of English Senryu, Volume 7, Issue 78. 

National Days: 
  • June 3rd is National Doughnut Day 
  • June 14th is Flag Day (and my birthday) 
  • June 18th is Juneteenth and Father's Day 
  • June 21st is the Summer Solstice 
  • June 27th is National PTSD Awareness Day 

National Months:  
  • National LGBTQIA Pride Month 
  • National PTSD Awareness Month 

Dear Valued Community,

May of 2022 was a very difficult month. I wish things were different, but they are not. Once again we are charged with processing collective trauma at a speed that seems like too much, too fast. But if you are able, try to find a way to allow what you feel to move through you. Talk to someone about it. Create art about it. Find any speck of light you can and be with that, too. 

Moving into June, it is one of my favorite months of the year—not only is it my birthday month, but it is the month that contains the longest day of the year in the Northern hemisphere. Days with more light feel longer, so I feel like I can squeeze more into my day. My energy stays elevated longer and I feel like I have more space to explore.

I encourage you to celebrate the longer and warmer days however feels right to you. Maybe there are different activities or types of food you enjoy this time of year. Take advantage of the fleeting light and warmth. In my opinion, all seasons have positive attributes, but there is something special about summer. 

With Gratitude, 

Kerry 
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Sunset Hill Park in Seattle

What I'm Reading Related for Therapy: Relational and Body-Centered Practices for Healing Trauma: Lifting the Burdens of the Past by Sharon Stanley 

"Relational and Body-Centered Practices for Healing Trauma provides psychotherapists and other helping professionals with a new body-based clinical model for the treatment of trauma. This model synthesizes emerging neurobiological and attachment research with somatic, embodied healing practices. Tested with hundreds of practitioners in courses for more than a decade, the principles and practices presented here empower helping professionals to effectively treat people with trauma while experiencing a sense of mutuality and personal growth themselves." 

What I'm Reading for Fun: Entangled Life: How Fungi Make Our Worlds, Change Our Mind & Shape Our Futures by Merlin Sheldrake 
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"When we think of fungi, we likely think of mushrooms. But mushrooms are only fruiting bodies, analogous to apples on a tree. Most fungi live out of sight, yet make up a massively diverse kingdom of organisms that supports and sustains nearly all living systems. Fungi provide a key to understanding the planet on which we live, and the ways we think, feel, and behave.

In Entangled Life, the brilliant young biologist Merlin Sheldrake shows us the world from a fungal point of view, providing an exhilarating change of perspective. Sheldrake’s vivid exploration takes us from yeast to psychedelics, to the fungi that range for miles underground and are the largest organisms on the planet, to those that link plants together in complex networks known as the "Wood Wide Web," to those that infiltrate and manipulate insect bodies with devastating precision.

Fungi throw our concepts of individuality and even intelligence into question. They are metabolic masters, earth makers, and key players in most of life's processes. They can change our minds, heal our bodies, and even help us remediate environmental disaster. By examining fungi on their own terms, Sheldrake reveals how these extraordinary organisms—and our relationships with them—are changing our understanding of how life works."
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(I'm a proud member of the sloth reading club, so what I'm reading will not always change monthly) ​
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Projects: Self-development book on trauma and worthiness, submitting haiku & poetry, ongoing content for various publications. Considering next steps in career training: psychedelic assisted therapy, HeartMath training,  biblio/poetry therapy training, or yoga teacher training. ​
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Carkeek Park in Seattle

Poem: 
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Desiderata
by Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. 

Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become bitter or vain, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. 

Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. 

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is perennial as the grass. 

Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. 

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.  

Therefore, be at peace with the universe, whatever you conceive it to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. 

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. 

Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. 
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Rhododendrons at the Rhododendron Species Botanical Garden in Federal Way, Washington

​Quote of the Month: "Let go and trust that all will be revealed at the perfect moment." - Angela Sandberg 
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